from the book
'wahai remaja kebanaranmu bermula disini '
i learned something
something called love
which is ,
before i love somebody ,i need .
really need to fulfill
1 . my love to Allah s.w.t
are you sure , your love to Allah is enough to let u love somebody ?
when u love Allah sincerely , then ur love for someone
will be sincere
2 . my love to both my parents
yes , i do love them . seriously .
but is it still enough ?
i dont think so .
3 . my love to knowledge .
i still need to find my love for knowledge .
i did not achieve that yet .
maybe a little , but seriously its not enough
4 . my love for a person
i cant love someone till i fulfill all the three loves above
next , love in this time . our teenage time is just our lust .
ia kemahuan , bukan keperluan .
if there is someone as good as Umar Abdul Aziz in this world
im happy to be Fatimah which was married to Umar
without even knowing each other.
but , they do live happy .
they have Allah's blessing .
do we think ,
by being in love now , we can have Allah's blessing ?
i'm ashame to see
some couples holding hands , kissing , hugging each other
but they have the nerve to pray to Allah
so that their relationship will be blessed
and last forever
do they actually realise , that they are definitely not mahrams
i do not want love without the blessings of Allah , rather lose someone , then losing Allah's blessing .
some of them said ,
"walaupun kitorg couple , kitorg ta pgg . ta berduaan .
but , zina hati , zina mata , cant be avoid in a relationship
this is a reminder for all the girls out there ,
a guy who take good care of your dignity ,
which is never lay even a finger on you ,
that guy is the one who is truly sincere .
this is totally not made up .
cube korg tgk soal asyraf kat oasis .
then korang akan tau .
crush happens to everyone out there
it does not mean ,
someone who wears 'tudung labuh'
has no crush
beleive me , i know
but , its the way they handle their feelings
istiqamah is important
they still be friend with guys .
but they have their limits .
i really really really want to be like one of them that i know so well .
jodoh pertemuan , semua kat tgn Alalh s.w.t
its just the matter of time
and our part ,
is to always pray to Allah
that we will meet the right person
that could lead us to the right path
this post does not mean , im a goodiegoodie
ive been through this
but i realised my mistake
i want to change
there is no harm in trying .
